Hi - just lurking and came across this post. I have been similarly torn for years around purchasing a TL SH-AWDs with the same J37. This is a very well discussed issue on multiple sites - enough so that I decided I wasn’t willing to take the chance. Like most things, those who don’t have the problem aren’t going to post so I’m sure there are still a majority who have not seen this. However, my unqualified opinion is that this is inevitable - it’s a just a matter of when. It is a design defect pure and simple.
Using, at the time, a new and largely untested cylinder liner material (FRM) to reduce friction turned out to be a bad decision IMHO and there’s no simple, inexpensive or even proven long term fix. Even the new rings, pistons for those who got the warranty repair don’t guarantee this won’t happen again because of the softness of the lining and Acura’s coverage only extended to 10 years so at this stage you’re on your own regardless. There’s a reason Honda stopped using this motor. You could, of course, just keep adding oil if this problem starts but I also didn’t want to be compelled to check my oil with every gas fill up because well - this is 2025 not 1975. If I owned a J37, I’d be doing this regardless because you never know when the problem could start.